God does double duty: Father and father.

The fatherless: abandonment, death, divorce, indifference. The reasons vary, but the results are the same: anger, confusion, bitterness, rebellion, and abusive or reckless behavior. This is when God has to double duty, becoming a father as well as being our heavenly Father.

During my two decades as a missionary, whether in Latin America or in Africa, I’ve met and counseled many youth who don’t know their earthly fathers or who have been shunned, sometimes even abused, by their biological or adoptive fathers.

Some have been able to move forward, with help from God. Others, however, have a hard time knowing Him as a heavenly “Father” because of what they have or have not seen in their earthly father.

Last week I was chatting on-line with “John”, a young man in Peru. I’ve never met him in person, but God allowed us to “meet” each other by way of HCJB-2’s Facebook page in December 2010. (HCJB-2 is our local radio station in Guayaquil, Ecuador.) “John” is studying tourism at the local university. He did well on a recent project and I said “I’m proud of you, brother. Facebook hug!”

I was left speechless by his response, “You know, I would have liked for my father to tell me that he was proud of me and to give me a hug. He has never hugged me nor told me that he loves me or that he’s proud of me. He has only mistreated me, and when he does come to the house, he acts like I don’t even exist.”

I’m most familiar with the fatherless situation in Ecuador and now Liberia. However, John Sowers, President of The Mentoring Project and author of Fatherless Generation: Redeeming the Story, says, “Rejection is the defining characteristic of the fatherless generation, where in the United States alone, just over 33 percent of youth — over 25 million kids — are fatherless and searching for Dad. Searching for his love and acceptance. (Just like “John”.) But Dad is nowhere to be found.”

Please pray for “John”. Pray that God would make Himself so real to our Peruvian brother that he will one day be able to forgive his earthly father. If not, the anger and bitterness will simply flow to another generation of his family. “John” knows he MUST forgive his father, even though his father has never asked for nor deserves forgiveness. However, you and I both know, the forgiveness is just as much for “John” as it is for his father, as well as for “John’s” future children.

And please pray for me as I counsel him from nearly 5,000 miles away. That God would give me the right words to say and clearly tell me what NOT to say. Pray, too, for local believers that God has brought into “John’s” life.

And thank God for being with him, doing double duty, as father and Father.

Allen.

P.S. Here are some sobering statistics from a recent report by Pew Center Research: “Another notable change during this period was the rise in births to unmarried women. In 2008, a record 41% of births in the United States were to unmarried women, up from 28% in 1990. The share of births that are non-marital is highest for black women (72%), followed by Hispanics (53%), whites (29%) and Asians (17%), but the increase over the past two decades has been greatest for whites—the share rose 69%.”

From Chazuta, in the jungles of north central Peru; to Cuzco, capital of the Incan Empire, high in the Andes Mountains; to the Amazon jungles in northwestern Brazil: an exhausting, but incredible 3-week training tour which allowed us to touch more than 130 colleagues!

One of the goals for HCJB Global Voice’s radio training ministry in the Latin America Region is to raise up like-minded Christian colleagues in this area in order to be able to more quickly and economically respond to future needs.

Please meet Kenny Lazo, a young communicator from Arequipa in southwestern Peru who trained with me in Chazuta and Cuzco. In 2009, Kenny received training by our team at a conference in southern Peru and in 2010 came to Quito for more training. [Kenny (r) presenting a certificate to one of the participants in Cuzco.]

However, this time the tables were turned and the trainee became the trainer. Kenny did a fabulous job, was well received by all the participants and was anxious to learn about the different cultures of his country which they represented. For instance, the 29 colleagues in Chazuta came from seven different ethnic groups!

In Brazil, I was once again teaching alongside Jasiel Martins. This is the third time that we have taught together over the past several years. Jasiel is a quiet young man from the Terena indigenous group, which primarily inhabits western central Brazil.

We were in Filadelfia, Amazonas State, with 15 participants representing five different tribal groups. As in Chazuta, what a special opportunity to see how God works to make sure His Word can be heard by all nations and all tongues! We were teaching these indigenous brothers and sisters how to produce programs to reach out to those in their tribal communities that don’t yet know Jesus Christ as their personal Savior.

In February of 2008, Jasiel received training in the first production workshop we conducted in Brazil. And like Kenny, he is now the trainer! In fact, Jasiel will go to Quito in mid-October for more specific technical training. Please pray for his trip and that it would be a fruitful time of learning and cross-cultural exposure.

What a blessing and privilege to serve alongside fellow communicators like Jasiel and Kenny who have a passion to use media to reach those that don’t yet know Christ or who have fallen away from an intimate walk with Jesus. A few years ago they were the students. Now we stand together as fellow trainers: generation to generation!

Please pray Kenny and Jasiel, and others like them in the Latin America Region, as God continues to form them, teach them and prepare them for His service. To God be all the glory and honor!